There’s this pattern I see in myself and some of my clients.
You’ve had an excellent idea for your business, and you want to make it happen quickly.
After all, this is something that will offer lots of value to your people, and it also promises to result in extra income.
You push the other projects and tasks you had planned for aside and start working on this new thing you’re really motivated about.
But it doesn’t take off the way you expected it to.
You thought it would be a slam dunk! Instead, you have very few people involved and your other goals, projects, and tasks have taken a hit.
Initially, it looked like you were doing something super productive for your business, even if it was a bit of productive procrastination (head over here for the productive/unproductive procrastination definitions).
Upon reflection, it seems it might have been more of an unproductive procrastination situation.
Next week I’ll share how to avoid it. This week, let’s look at what’s really going on.
If you’ve done this, know that you’re in excellent company.
The reasons I’ve fallen into this pattern are many of the same reasons I’ve seen my clients fall into this pattern.
One reason is I need to learn a new skill in my business (or a new level of that skill) and I cannot figure it out on my own. And rather than finding someone to teach it to me, I come up with a brilliant way that I think might circumvent needing to learn this vital business skill, but it doesn’t work. Now I’m more frustrated because I feel like I’ve wasted a month or more of my time, and I still need to learn that skill.
Another reason is if I’m not getting the interest or engagement I want around something I’m doing. So, instead of looking at what I can adjust or add to have the interest or engagement I want, I do something completely new that I think will result in that interest or engagement. What ends up happening is people are confused about what I’m doing, I still have to promote the new thing (and often I’m doing it the same way I was promoting the other thing), and I end up with even less interest or engagement. Then I’m frustrated and annoyed and feel like I’ve taken five steps backward.
There are lots of other ways this can manifest itself.
The basic formula is:
- I want to avoid this thing in my business
- I create a distraction that feels exciting and promising
- It doesn’t go the way I want
- I feel frustrated and further behind
- I either repeat the formula OR do the thing I’m avoiding
What situations in your business might resemble this pattern?
Next week I’ll share how to recognize this pattern and put a stop to it.